I have very, very, VERY little sympathy for guys that complain all the time about being in the friendzone when they have put me in the friend zone.
God. Quit your bitchin and move on, you pussies. If I can handle it so can you.
I have had enough of my male friends bitching and moaning about how girls (girls I don’t even know why they are interested in) “friend zone” them. When they don’t realize, I know they’ve done it to people. Some of them have done it to me. It’s natural. And I can understand being upset over rejection, but this whole “friend zone” thing has gotten out of hand. It’s become more of a “woe is me, i’m such a nice guy and girls don’t like me, why are girls so stupid, why do girls only go for BAD BOYS??”
Here’s news for you: The “friend zone” is just a part of life that people have to deal with.
This goes out to all the guys who post those friendzone bullshit things all over the internet. I bet you a hundred bucks that at least 90 percent of those guys have friendzoned one or more girls before. Probably don’t even realize that they’ve committed the same “crime” that they constantly complain about.
I just don’t understand why guys lately just seem so WHINEY about it. It happens to almost everyone at some point. Get the fuck over it, it’s not the end of the world, so you can crawl out of your emo corner and realize that sometimes, things just aren’t meant to work out. And if you piss and moan about it, its not going to get you a girl anyway. I know it sucks, I know it hurts, but whining isn’t going to help.
The “friend zone” is not a place. It is not something bigger than you, it is not something that girls do because they’re stupid or want to torture nice guys. It is just what happens when one person is more interested in a person than that person is in them. And you know what—that happens. Because not every girl you like is going to like you back. I dont give a shit if you listen to her problems and do nice things and act like the perfect boyfriend. Just because you’re a “nice guy” doesn’t mean every girl is meant for you, but that’s also not always the reason a girl doesn’t like you. Sometimes, they’re just not going to be interested in you that way. And you should realize this, respect this, and move on. ALSO—what is this shit that guys seem to think that “once you’re friendzoned its pretty much over”. I have heard that from a few people. And um. That is shit. I personally know that a lot of girls enjoy being good friends first. It makes a lot of us feel more comfortable around guys. Take it from a girl. Not all hope is lost just because you are friends for awhile. I mean, I wouldn’t necessarily bet the farm on you two getting together, but I wouldn’t say the world was ending either.
This is coming from a girl that has been “friend zoned” more times in her life than most of you ever have. Grow up. Your girl bros are sick of your childish whining.
This has been a rant.